Day 61 – Friday, Feb. 10th (61/305): We were not given a spirit of fear

How fragile courage can be when it’s new, unpracticed, still developing… I went to work today, looking forward to the brief phone interview for the temp job, already planning how I might accommodate my present work responsibilities for the weeks I would be largely unavailable during normal business hours if I get the job. I wanted to give my colleague a heads up, in case my schedule needs to abruptly change. It caught her off-guard, as it had me, and the timing was poor. My eagerness rapidly shrank back to distress and concern. Would it work? Will I have to choose between a job I’d like to keep and a job I may need to be able to make ends meet in the coming weeks?

I was truly wishing I had my copy of Courage to Change with me. I would have turned to some pages on fear, worry, or some similar topic. (The thought to bring it had been there when I was getting ready for work. Once again, I dismissed the nudge I was getting from you know Who.)

So, I cast about in my memory banks for some 12-Step wisdom and remembered that I can choose what kind of attitude I want to hold. I could let my dismay and renewed fear dislodge the confidence I felt earlier this morning or I could remember that I need to take care of myself and trust God to work it out.

The irony, I realized as I was writing this, is that I had been given a classic “fear not” verse just this morning during my reflection time. In fact, I had recorded three such verses in my journal:

But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid; for see – I am bringing you good news of great joy…” (Luke 2:10 NRSV)

Perfect love casts out fear. (1 John 4:18 NKJV)

For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. (2 Tim 1:7 NKJV – This is one of my favorites.)

I’m also now remembering the spider that startled me when it dashed across my comforter as I was preparing for bed last night. Oy! Spider reminds me that if I am not decisive enough about changing my lot in life, I may end up being consumed by my fears and limitations. (Sams & Carson’s Medicine Cards, p 209) I wasn’t thrilled to abruptly encounter the speedy little critter, but I appreciated the message. (Services were held for it this morning…)

Ya think Someone’s trying to tell me something about letting go of my fears and moving past them? I can take a hint! (And I’d prefer not to wait till the 2 by 4 is needed!)

I don’t know what’s going to happen with the temp job. I didn’t receive word one way or the other this afternoon, but the gentleman interviewing me said it might be Monday morning before we (candidates) would know. Until then, I’ll plan my work keeping the possibility in mind, but let go the worry about receiving the job. I know that if I am fortunate enough to get this or some other position, God will be able to sort out the details.

Action step(s):

  • Went into work early and caught up on some personal emails.
  • Responded to an email that came because my resumé is posted on a job site. The message undoubtedly goes out to everyone with a resumé on the website (they’re looking for sales people), so I flipped things and asked the inquirer to let me know if he knows anyone who needs a good admin!
  • Asked a friend, who inquired how things were going, to let me know if she hears of any admin positions. She said she’d keep it in mind. “Networking” again! Whoo hoo! 🙂
  • Boldly shopped for some healthy foods, knowing that God will provide if I run short later in the month.
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4 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. JenniferB
    Feb 12, 2012 @ 11:02:06

    What good responses on your part! I hope that what is the best for you is what happens, job or no job. We do not know what will happen or what is best for us, but you are very open to the immediate future and that is great.

    Congrats on the interview, adaptation in your response and your wonderful networking!

    Reply

    • Lucia
      Feb 12, 2012 @ 16:13:59

      Thanks! It felt good to be able to shift. Now I’m trying to shift out the fear engendered by my post today (Sunday). Why is it that posting potentially “hot-topic” items can feel so scary? Sigh…

      Reply

      • JenniferB
        Feb 12, 2012 @ 16:51:09

        I think today’s blog (Sunday, Day 63) was very eloquent. I felt like I was reading an op-ed piece by a published and accomplished writer. Beautiful words. I felt the passion behind your words as well as the compassion you have.

        I very much agree with your assessment of learning about other faith traditions. I will remember what your professor said about treating each faith tradition as one I want for myself.

        In the meantime, find peace, seek love and share joy. You are amazing. J

      • Lucia
        Feb 12, 2012 @ 19:11:35

        Thanks so much for your comments, Jennifer! I hope you don’t mind that I copied your comment with the blog for today (Sunday, Day 63). Hugs!

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